I just finished this book that I picked out for Halloween. Mr. and Mrs. Darcy have a mystery to solve. It was perfect for the holiday season since I don't like real mysteries or horror. I've posted it as was well as another book I finished this weekend on My Reading Spot.
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Pride and Prescience
I just finished this book that I picked out for Halloween. Mr. and Mrs. Darcy have a mystery to solve. It was perfect for the holiday season since I don't like real mysteries or horror. I've posted it as was well as another book I finished this weekend on My Reading Spot.
Halloween is over!
Gage didn't take his nap and apparently his world fell apart after returning from the office. He didn't want to eat dinner, he wanted to eat candy. He was very upset with me. To make a long story short, an hour and a half later I was sitting in his room with him sobbing while Wade and Noah handed out candy. His friends came by and he was able to wave at them. He then calmed himself down some to eat his cornbread and 3 bites of his chili. I told him he could go trick or treating but only with Mommy - NOT - his friends (or his Dad). We went to about 5 buildings before coming home and going to bed. Wade and I were both pretty sad we didn't get to take fun pictures and have fun. I know Gage thinks I am so mean, but at least he knows I am serious. And I know that my 3 1/2 year old still needs his nap.
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Yankee or Dixie
Day Three
Today is day three of my "NO tv" challenge. Things are getting easier. I've figured out showers and getting ready. The boys play great in their room. I'm glad that I didn't have to give up the computer or the internet. The great month long Christiansen computer crash of spring 2007 proved to me that I am NOT ready for that challenge.So, to recap yesterday...
I knew it would happen. My sister called me and told me that Des Moines had blown up and was on fire and I was missing it because I couldn't turn on my TV. Really. See the picture.
I guess there was a chemical explosion that made national headlines and we were missing it. I cheated and did watch some live footage on the internet for about 5 minutes. It's my own challenge and I don't think that should count.
I took this picture from my car on the way to Target. That is about all we could see.
All in all the day went by really fast and we made it through great. Gage asked me a few times if he could watch a show but then I reminded him that our TV was broke for a few days. He thinks that is funny. Besides, who needs to watch TV when you can play underneath it, right?
On a different note, we went to the library preschool Halloween party last night. He has another library party this morning and beggars night tonight. I know a lot of people think it's great all the fun parties here in Iowa, but sometimes I feel that it takes a little bit of the magic and surprise out of the real Halloween. I still take him to all the fun things anyhow.
Monday, October 29, 2007
Monday Moments
10 ¶ Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
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I have a lot to live up to after reading this passage. This week I have many goals to work on. As I read this section of scripture, verse 27 stuck out in my mind. So this week we have taken on a NO television challenge. It shouldn't be hard, but I know it will be.
Sunday, Day one: Sunday we don't want much TV anyway, but I do tend to cheat in the morning after Wade has left for his bishopric meetings and I am trying to get ready myself and get two boys ready. I held strong and didn't cheat. Last night was quiet and nice.
Monday, Day two: Today will be the biggest hurdle. I use the television a lot in the morning. So far it's 7:30 and the boys have both been awake an hour and I've survived. We have along list of alternative activities. I realize that blogging might be hard to do this week.
Anyone want to join my challenge? What are you working on this week to better yourself and become a virtuous woman?
Busy
Last week (Wednesday) Gage woke up feeling a little sick. We usually go to a play date at the mall every Wednesday, so we skipped. Instead we stayed at home cuddled under blankets and then make paper pumpkins for our windows. Gage also got to paint his own pumpkin. He woke up Thursday feeling a lot better.
Thursday was the DMU kids Halloween party. The boys going to Daddy's school! The students help and set up lots of games for the kids to play and give out treats. Gage won a gold medal necklace during pumpkin bowling and has been wearing it every since. They also love going to the game room and playing a little pool each time they go to DMU.
Friday, we went to a Halloween cookie decorating party and had date night! All of it was fun, but sorry - no pictures!
Saturday was our church's trunk or treat. If you don't know what this is, I it is the best thing ever! Everyone comes and parks their cars, opens their trunks and then hands out candy. The kids can run around in a safe environment and get candy from people they know. There was lots of hot chocolate and friends. Gage's favorite part is that we painted his face so he could look just like daddy. Little Hyram (top right picture) even got to wear Gage's Peter Pan costume from last year! The kids were all studs!
Saturday night we carved our pumpkins. Noah ate the pumpkin top and Gage had yummy root beer. Gage and I went for a simple star design and Wade tried something more challenging...a foot. I don't think that the pictures do it justice.
Sunday we attended {church} and found out that we will now be attending a new {ward} (congregation). Since our church is a world-wide church, it is the same every place you go and attend. This also means that you cannot have one single congregation, but most rather congregations are split up geographically. Sometimes one congregation gets larger while another one struggles. This has happened and so the lines have been re-aligned. It's a bitter sweet thing. I know that my church is true and understand why this happens. I have great friends in my new ward. However, I leave behind some of my best friends, Erica, Katie and Lisa, and while I will still see at least Erica and Katie almost every day during the week, I will miss hearing their comments and feeling their testimonies each Sunday.
Friday, October 26, 2007
Inspiration on a car
"FAITH makes all things possible...not easy.
How true.
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Man Scrapbooking
My favorite part is when he creates a watermark with his car. Is this really what would happen if the man in your life decided to scrapbook?
We are painting pumpkins and going to a Halloween party at DMU today so I should have some great pictures this afternoon!
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Good News Wednesday

1. We had great weather and a good time at the pumpkin patch yesterday. See my post below.
2. Noah's scrapbook is getting fatter...this means I am getting closer to my goal. I made this page at a scrapbook class last week that my friend Sarah H. hosted. I wasn't sure I would find pictures to go with it. I have to see the picture first to scrapbook, so doing it this way seems a little backwards in my mind. Then I remembered that the next page in Noah's book was when the guys in my family went on their "deer hunt" in our house. I think it worked out well.
3. Wade got the Portland rotation in September. This is a highly competitive rotation, so we were very blessed to get the month that we wanted. This also means we won't be apart for September (well, at least during the weekends). So counting his core 4 month rotation in Tacoma, WA and his one month off, we now have 6 months planned and will be together for all of those 6 months.
4. Bitter-sweet good news. Both boys are sick, but I have two very cuddly boys. Noah is never cuddley so I'm eating this up. This morning they both sat on my lap and we held hands watching my new favorite PBS kids show. { Super Why. } (Click on it for more information) - This show is so great!
5. Gage & Noah gets to wear their costumes this weekend at our church's trunk or treat. I can't wait to see the boys dressed up! Arg. Growl. (pirate and dinosaur)
What's your good news this Wednesday?
Pumpkin Patch
We went with some friends and saw some more friends while we were there. It was a perfect day at the patch and we all picked out two pumpkins - one for Gage to paint and the other for Noah to, well, look at.
Here are some of the highlights (click on any picture to enlarge):


For some reason I realized this year on the way to the farm that I have taken the same picture of Gage each year walking down the dirt road. Of course that meant I had to get the shot again this year.

I then had to reminisce about old times we had at the pumpkin patch. Our first year we went with a few girlfriends, since our first year medical student husbands were all too busy to go. The the kids seemed like babies! Gage's favorite part was finding sticks. I know I have a group picture scrapbooked, but I must not have it on file on my computer. Last year we went just Wade, Gage and myself. Wade had just got off his crutches from his surgery and he had a hard time walking on the uneven patch ground. I looked like a 8 month pregnant pumpkin myself. I remember it was a very hot day for October and I was very uncomfortable.
Last but not least my favorite picture of the day is of Noah. For some reason the farm animals really scared him. Wade, being the good responsible father he is, kept asking me to pick him up so he wouldn't be scared. I, being the crazy-scrapbooking-blogging mother I am, told him to keep pulling them around towards the animals so I could capture this moment on film. The result was priceless!Progress
This morning I got them out for Gage and he had a great time painting. I was impressed with his progress in the past 6 months. When he got his first book he would just frantically paint all over the page and mix all the colors. He now sits and concentrates on getting each color right and staying in the lines.

I took this picture with my new camera! It's a Canon Powershot. I got it at Costco - you cannot beat their warranty! I decided to go with a smaller camera and I am very excited to figure out all that it can do. Thanks for every one's advice. I owe my mother in law Betty the BIGGEST thanks ever. She helped me with the cost. I totally lucked out in the mother in law category, she is a wonderful mom and grandma!

Some other progress we've had around the Christiansen household lately is at bedtime. Gage has gotten in this horrible habit of coming out his room at night. We have tried taking away toys and that worked for a while, but then I read in {Parents} magazine (the BEST parenting magazine!) about the bedtime pass and how it works great for 3 and 4 year olds. I sat down Gage last week and we created this pass. He did all the cutting, gluing and decorating. I then told him how it would work. He is allowed one time out of his room but after that we get to take away his coveted train table. It's been about a week and it has worked wonders! Some nights it's almost immediate that he comes out and hands us the pass. Other's he waits a while and some nights he hasn't even used it. I think the freedom of knowing that he can come out without getting in trouble is the answer.
I hope everyone has a great Tuesday! We are off to the pumpkin patch!
Monday, October 22, 2007
Monday Moments
This led me to creating Monday Moments. Each Monday I hope to share some inspirational thoughts, quotes or scriptures. I must admit, I am doing this for my own selfish motives; I hope this will help me start each week on a positive note. The following quotes are all from President Spencer W. Kimball, the 12 President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
“No greater honor could be given to a woman than to assist in God’s divine plan. I wish to say without equivocation that a woman will find no greater satisfaction and joy and peace and make no greater contribution to mankind than in being a wise and worthy woman and raising good children.”
“One does not need to be married or a mother in order to keep the first and second great commandments – those of loving God and our fellowmen –on which Jesus said hang all the law and all the prophets.”
“There has never been a time in the world when the role of woman has been more confused. There has never been a time in the Church when women are able to do more to show what their true role in the world can and ought to be. The impact and influence of women and mothers on our world is most important. The through that “the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world” is more viable today than ever before.”
“No greater recognition can come to you in the world than to be known as a woman of God. No greater status can be conferred upon you than being a daughter of God who experiences true sisterhood, wifehood, and motherhood or other tasks which influence lives for good.”
Saturday, October 20, 2007
Help!
Guy Stuff
1. The first thing on their list was a fire safety event at the local fire station. He said the boys had a great time seeing all the equipment and he got this one picture before the camera battery died.
(Yes, we are still trying to decide what new camera to get, we some of the slowest decision makers you will ever meet.)
Wade is off attending a special church meeting tonight, so I had Gage tell me about this picture. In his words:
"I am driving a John Deere. Noah is ridding in the back. I got to see fire and smoke. I like the fire trucks. They are big." If you look close you can see the back of Gage's head - he's wearing the fun fire truck hat that he got to take home. He also learned about climbing out of a window on a ladder. He says that was his favorite part of his afternoon.
Other Guy Stuff:
2. Helping a woman who was stranded on the road change a tire on her car.
3. Taking naps.
4. Eating snacks....especially cheese.
I came home four and half hours later to find everyone well fed, happy and driving around cars in the living room.
I am so glad that my boys have such a great dad around to teach them all these important and fun boy things!
Now I'm off with the boys to torture/bore them at the scrapbook store:)
Friday, October 19, 2007
G
We then celebrated the letter G with a little g lunch. On the menu was: Grilled cheese, Grapes, Green beans and Grape soda. We also had G decorations.
(I love that Gage has his G hat on upside down in this picture!)
TAG
1. I will be 32 years old before I have the chance to live somewhere longer than 6 years. This means I will be 39 before I live somewhere longer than anywhere else and can call it home. This is why I strongly dislike the question "Where are you from?"
2. Lately I have been thinking about going back to school for a Masters in Library Science. It doesn't exactly fit well with my undergrad (Mass Comm), but it sounds right up my ally. I won't be able to start this until Wade is in residency, but I have already been checking out programs in Washington.
3. Ten years ago today, one of my biggest dreams was for our high school football team to make it to the state finals so I could cheer in War Memorial Stadium in Little Rock. It didn't happen, but because I was captain I got to do it later when they had the state all-star game.
4. I would love to have a cabin in the mountains full of books and lots of pens and paper so I can read and write to my hearts content. Wade jokes that I am like Belle in The Beauty and the Beast...the best gift someone could give me would be a library.
5. I like cats, not dogs. I am allergic to both.
6. I actually am a little scared to live somewhere the rest of my life (refer to #1). I love moving around and meeting new people, finding new places. I think it's exciting and fun. I always tell Wade that when we end up in one place he better be prepared to at least move houses every so often. Maybe I'll change - we'll see.
Tag: Heather, Chandra, Jennilyn, Kim Y., Karen P., Sarah H.
Thursday, October 18, 2007
Bugs
He ran our doorbell and when I opened the door the first words out of his mouth were "Well, why aren't you at work?"
Surprised, I looked at him, pointed to my two boys and said "I am at work, what are you talking about?" He grunted.
I then told him about how big the spiders are that we are finding and where we find them. He didn't really seem like he believed me but he sprayed a little anyway. Then one minute later he tried to leave and got very upset that I have childproof locks on my door. He looked annoyed and asked me "Why do you even have these?"
"Because my 3 year old will run outside anytime he wants and I don't want to find him outside." I offered to open it for him. He then looked Gage and told him, "You just need to tell him NO once and that is all you need to say to him."
Yes - sir, you are right. I am not at work because I stay at home with my children and that is not work at all. NOT AT ALL.
You are also right, that is all you have to say to a 3 year old. NO. Once and then he will never go outside without me again. I'm sure it will work even though there is a play ground across the street from my apartment and he can see it from the window. I'm sure he won't go in the busy road if he sees a friend outside. I'm sure he won't because you are the bug man and you are right.
I think Wade will be in charge of pest control for the few months left we have here in Iowa.
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On a happier note I got some scrapbooking done last night. I am currently at 9 months old for Noah and he turns one in 2 weeks. Maybe I will reach my goal, but I am in need of some inspiration! I'm going to a scrapbook party tomorrow morning, maybe that will help.
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Good News Wednesday
1. The letter of the week this week for Gage is G. He is so excited! I think Friday we are going to have a G party!

2. I've had lots of good advice about cameras. Today we ventured out in the rain to Best Buy and I found this one. I think it might be a good mixture of the two. Hopefully by this weekend I can make a decision!

3. A yummy taco soup is cooking on the stove! Yum-o Soups are GREAT for the fall!
4. Since Noah weened himself he now sleeps through the night! After 11 months of waking up every 3 or 4 hours, sleep is so wonderful! 8-7 is wonderful!
5. My Gage make me laugh. He was just playing with is cars and exclaimed "Holy Crack!" I suppose I say holy crap to much, but it was so funny I couldn't correct him!
6. I finished Pride & Prejudice last night. I'll post about it on My Reading Spot tomorrow. I started a new book, Wish You Well, by David Baldacci. I got it from Kristy during Heather's book swap.
7. I'm off to a Halloween Costume Party tonight at my church. I help with a youth program for the girls ages 8-11. I can't find anything spooky - so it's either my husbands scrubs and white coat, or a crown I have and a formal dress. I think I'm leaning towards the princess. Why not get all dressed up?
What's your good news this fine Wednesday?
Say Cheese
he larger camera I want - it's a Nikon and way out of my price range - so I need some opinions.
n how to use it). I will probably have to get a lower mega pixel for the price I can afford. This option also leaves me to brands. I said before I can't afford the one I really want, so I'm not sure what brand I should get. I found this Kodak one at Costco I could afford if I saved a little big longer. Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Book Swap
Happenings
May: vacation!
Monday, October 15, 2007
Families
“We know when things go wrong in the family; things go wrong in every other institution in society…
Our political institutions cannot rescue us if your basic institution, the family is not intact. Peace treaties cannot save us when there is hostility instead of love in the home. Unemployment programs cannot rescue us when many are no longer taught how to work or do not have the opportunity to work or the inclination, in some cases to do so. Law enforcement cannot safeguard us if too many people are unwilling to discipline themselves or be disciplined.”
“There seems to be a growing tendency to shift this responsibility from the home to outside influences such as the school and the church, and of greater concern, to various child-care agencies and institutions. Important as these outward influences may be, they never can adequately take the place of the influence of the mother and the father. Constant training, constant vigilance, companionship, and being watchmen of our own children are necessary in order to keep our homes intact and to bless our children in the Lord’s own way.”
“Fathers and mothers, your foremost responsibility is your family.”
“As parents read the newspapers and magazines and see what the world is trying to teach their children, they should become all the more determined that their children not be damaged by such sin and error. Parents should then provide the home life, the discipline, and the training that will offset and neutralize the evil that is being done in the world. As children learn of the ugly things in the world, they must also learn of the good things in the world and the proper responses and proper attitudes.”
I hope we can all strive to be better wives, mothers, sisters, and friends.
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Book Swap
This is your reminder - Monday is the last day to sign up for the book swap! Email me the info below if you want to participate! Fall is always such a fun time of year to curl up with a blanket and a good book!Here is the low down:
Send me an email to sign up - wadeanddebbi - at - gmail - .com
Send me your shipping address, type of books you enjoy, any other information you might find useful about yourself and if you would mind receiving children(s) books
Deadline to sign up is - MONDAY, OCTOBER 15
I'll send you your special swap someone on -TUESDAY, OCTOBER 16
Packages must be postmarked one week from that day - TUESDAY, OCTOBER 23
Friday, October 12, 2007
Fun Fall Quizes
| You Could Not Be a Vampire |
![]() Sorry, but you're not just cut out for flesh eating, turning into a bat, and living forever. But that's okay. The sight of blood turns your stomach... without even thinking of drinking it. And while you definitely would never be a vampire, you're exactly the type of frail prey Dracula wannabe's crave. Maybe it's time to arm yourself with a cross and some nasty garlic breath! What you would like best about being a vampire: The raw power (though you wouldn't admit it to anyone) What you would like least about being a vampire: The whole killing thing |
(To bad they don't have a quiz - Could you be a werewolf? I could probably ACE that one!)
| You Are Changing Leaves |
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| You Are a Yellow Crayon |
![]() Your world is colored with happy, warm, fun colors. You have a thoughtful and wise way about you. Some people might even consider you a genius. Charming and eloquent, you are able to get people to do things your way. While you seem spontaneous and free wheeling, you are calculating to the extreme. Your color wheel opposite is purple. You both are charismatic leaders, but purple people act like you have no depth. |
Soccer
So Gage has been in a soccer class for the past six weeks. It's been a parental involvement class where the coach/teacher tells the parents how to do a drill and we then teach the child. They learn the basics of soccer. Dribble, trapping, kicking, throwing. It has been very fun and entertaining way to spend some quality time with Gage. Gage has loved it and it's been fun to see him improve.
Last night was his last class and he was pretty sad. He drew his teacher, Abby, a picture and I attached it to a bag of Hershey Miniatures, since she did a great job teaching all the miniatures how to play the game.
During the last 15 minutes of class she got all the kids together and they got to play their first soccer game. She carefully told each team where they should be trying to kick the ball (in the opposing net). Then she gathered them all together and dropped the ball. The game was a hoot to watch! I was so sad that Wade had to miss it!
Gage got the ball first and headed in the right direction, but then went up the big hill. Gage's friend Maddie got her feelings hurt no one was giving her a turn and she stood by the goal post the whole time. Some fellow teammates tried to console her. I thought she made a great goalie. Gage then found a big white stick (from the goal post?!) and chased kids around with it. I don't have that on video because I was frantically trying to get him to stop. In the last part of the video you will see his teacher carrying it around. They pretty much all ran around chasing the person with the ball. At some points it was on the verge of football since there were some good tackles and pile ups as well. In the end I think that Gage's team lost, but he didn't even care. He loved soccer class.
Thursday, October 11, 2007
P & P
I apologize for the boring post and lack of pictures this week, Wade has had the camera with him.
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
You should have seen his face
I run. I race past Gage (who is wondering what is going on) and take the stairs by two. I crack the door and peak in. I can't see Noah. My heart is racing. I open the door and there he is. Standing and jumping in his crib pointing to a large tub of A&D Diaper ointment I keep on the dresser in between his crib and the changing table. He threw it across the room. He looks at me and laughs.
The little stinker. It's not nap time any longer at the Christiansen abode. He is playing in the living room where I can now see him. You really should have seen the smile on his face!
Good News Wednesday

Saturday, October 06, 2007
Mom's
I know this is making the rounds and you might have seen it - but each time I see it I smile and laugh. I hope you have a great weekend!
Friday, October 05, 2007
Book Swap
It's that time of year again. I promised I would host another book swap. So everyone get ready for the fun! We all love getting new books, and this is such a fun way to get one! You can send one book or more, it's up to you. You can pick a used book you have loved or buy a new one. Recipe books, non fiction, fiction, or even children's are all free game.Here is the low down:
Send me an email to sign up - wadeanddebbi - at - gmail - .com
Send me your shipping address, type of books you enjoy, any other information you might find useful about yourself and if you would mind receiving children(s) books
Deadline to sign up is one week - MONDAY, OCTOBER 15
I'll send you your special swap someone on -TUESDAY, OCTOBER 16
Packages must be postmarked one week from that day - TUESDAY, OCTOBER 23
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I hope you enjoyed the reading features this week on My Reading Spot. I hope you will check back often to see find good books and fun ideas about reading!
Thursday, October 04, 2007
Thursday - Fiction
Wednesday, October 03, 2007
Good News Wednesday



5. I am featuring series books on My Reading Spot today. Tomorrow will be Fiction! You won't want to miss that!
Tuesday, October 02, 2007
Super Powers
The letter of the week this week is E. Today we made an Elephant with an old CD. Gage thought it was super funny! If you want to try to make one they are super easy, but put masking tape on the CD before you glue anything or else the glue won't stick!
Monday, October 01, 2007
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