Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Noah - Wednesday

(Noah with is bear from the WDM EMT that tried to make friends with him. He never liked the EMT, but he really does love this silly bear!)

My good news this Wednesday is Noah. He gave us a big scare yesterday.

I could tell that Noah wasn’t feeling his finest yesterday but I thought he was just a little extra tired. He’s cutting at least one molar and has some more on the top that are swollen. He took his morning nap and then was really tired at 12:30, which is an hour early for his afternoon nap but since I had been fighting a migraine for the past two days I decided we would all take naps so Gage and I also slept. When Noah woke up around 3 he felt a little warm but I didn’t think it was too bad so we ran two errands that didn’t take long. Noah fell asleep in the car on the way home which I thought was a little silly but I did have the heat on in the van and he was bundled in his coat. Let me say here that I think I’m pretty conservative with medicine and doctor visits. I tried everything and anything with Gage when he was so colicky his whole first year and nothing worked. With Noah I have really held back because of this.

We got home and I cleaned up the house and started to make dinner. Noah wanted another rest; he just kept resting his head on me so I let him sleep for a short nap and then woke him up. He was having fun watching Gage and laughing at things we were all doing but still felt warm. I had dinner ready and Wade had called and would be home in 15 minutes so I decided just to sit with him on the couch. He started to cry a little so I thought I better take off his clothes so he could cool down. I didn’t want to give him Tylenol yet because they would be going to bed in a little over an hour so I thought we could just wait. I picked him up and took off his clothes and that is when he started to have a seizure.

It was the worst thing in the world I think I’ve seen. I was holding him so I kept holding him on his side and he wouldn’t stop. I called Wade and he didn’t answer, but I knew he would be home any minute. Gage was running around wanting to know what was going on and I thought Noah would stop but it seemed like eternity and he wouldn’t. I called Anne-Marie to get Gage but her husband said she wasn’t home, when I told him what was going on I freaked him out. I really thought Noah would stop so I called my sister who has a little boy who has seizures. She said if it had been longer than 3 minutes to call 911. I’m pretty sure I hung up on her at this point. (Sorry Kathy!) I dialed 911 but then heard Wade’s car door so I threw open the front door and yelled for Wade. He called 911 and took over. Noah wasn’t responding, wasn’t breathing well and was turning grey. I was trying to stay calm. It seemed like forever and he was still seizing. He started to stop convulsing right as the fire truck got to our house. I let them take over. I was trying really hard not to lose it and felt like I was in some sort of movie with all these big strange guys in my house and my poor baby lying on the floor. It had been at least 5 minutes of convulstions from when he started to when Wade got home (I watched the clock). It was probably another 5 from that point to when the crew all got there. They later apologized for being so slow. I thought they were pretty fast considering all the icy roads.


Anne-Marie came and got Gage at some point. I have to thank her for all that she did. I am so glad that we have such a good friend that lives less than 50 feet across the street from us. She fed Gage dinner, she put our dinner away (which was just sitting on the stove and would have gone bad), she got him ready for bed and when we got home they were cuddling under blankets reading books. He said he had a great time and liked to look at the fire truck the best.

We loaded Noah in the ambulance and they tried to start an IV in his hand and couldn’t get one started. He was still pretty nonresponsive and I was really scared. Poor Wade as standing outside the ambulance trying to stay out of the way. They finally decided to leave anyway and on the way to the hospital he started to come out of it and got really mad at the bald stranger EMT man and started yelling for his Dada. This was the best thing ever! It also helped the EMT find a vein and start an IV in his hand.

He was responding when he got to the hospital and he really calmed down when he finally got to see Wade. They finally let me hold him again and he fell asleep. His temperature was never higher than 101.4 so that was the strange thing to me. He’s had a high fever before that has been much higher (104) but the Dr. that we talked to said it isn’t always how high the temperature of the fever is, it’s how fast it comes on. She said I did the right thing by calling and I probably couldn't have prevented this from happening.

We were able to come home last night after about 2 or 3 hours and he is ok. They told us that about 10 percent of kids have seizures from fevers and only 10% of those 10% have reoccurring ones. We shouldn’t be worried (but we still are). I have a nephew and a sister with epilepsy. They found out that he had an ear infection (never showed any signs) so he has to be on antibiotics and we have to give him Tylenol 24 hours a day for 48 hours. I was so scared I wouldn’t hear the alarm go off last night to give him his medicine I didn’t get much sleep. We debated sleeping in his room but decided if we turned the monitor on really high that would be the best. We never use monitors so it was really hard to trust them and I just wanted to hold him and rock him all night.

A few things that this makes me wonder: Last time he had a high fever it was after his 1 year shots. This was a week after his 15 month shots. Wade says the good still outweighs the bad with shots, but it makes me wonder. I also know that last time he had a fever his arms did a jerky thing (similar to a how newborns move) one night when I was holding him. I didn’t think it was a seizure then because it wasn’t prolonged, but looking back now I have to wonder. His arms did the same time last night right before he started to convulse. I will have to talk to our pediatrician and find out more information.

Wade and our John (Anne-Marie’s husband) were able to give him a blessing last night when we got home. It was nice that we have that comfort. I am so thankful for all the help we received last night from Anne-Marie, John the EMTs, firemen (who showed up first) and for Heavenly Father blessing us that he could recover so soon. We are very blessed that he is ok. He is acting normal today, wrestling, chasing and steam rolling his brother and having fun. It is amazing how fast you can be reminded how important your life and family are to you.
(And so everyone knows, I kept praying the whole time. I think that is the only reason I didn't lose it. I lost it after when we were driving home from the hospital. Wade kept telling me it was over but I couldn't hold it in anymore. Writing this made me cry too. I really think we were blessed.)

40 comments:

brittany said...

oh my goodness debbie, that is so scary. i can't believe you were so brave. i am so glad to hear that he is okay and everything turned out alright. that really is good news!

Anne-Marie said...

ok, i teared up. I hadn't cried for you until just now! we're so glad noah's ok! You didn't freak Jon out, he was just unsure of how to help you! he (obviously) didn't know what to do either! I'm glad we could be here to help and I'm sorry I wasn't home so you didn't have to be alone until Wade came. we were praying for you guys and feel free to ditch kids on me anytime!

The Perry Family said...

gosh debbi! maybe that is why you were in my dream lastnight b/c i was worried about you and deep down knew you needed strength...i don't know, but either way i'm so glad that everything is ok. just from working the hospital though, it sounded like a febrile seizure which is so common in children with ear infections. i know you can't help but look back and wonder and i hope your pediatrician says the same. i know i'm far away, but if you need anything let me know. there is always prayer..i can do that from here :)

Debbi said...

Heather, you are so nice. They said it was a febrile seizure but said it was because of the fever not the infection. I'll see what my dr says when we go in there. They said with febrile he probably won't have one every again and it didn't hurt him by having it.

Megan and Shawn said...

Wow Debbi - I can't believe it!! I'm so sorry, I can't even imagine how scary that was for guys. I hope he is doing better, reading that made me start bawling like a baby. I can't even imagine that happening and what I would do. Hopefully Noah won't have that problem again. Way to stay tough through it all, I would have gone crazy.

mary said...

Debbi, I had to come get the full report today. Sorry for calling when you guys were at the hospital, but I got home and told Dave I saw you and Noah in the ambulance, and Dave was like, "We need to call them NOW." It took me a while to track down a cell phone number. But I am so grateful little Noah is fine. You did a great job of handling it. I think I would have fallen to pieces on the spot.

Megan and Shawn said...

Hey I just looked at your comment about the Indiana Jones movies - are you serious??? I'll have to lend your our trilogy. Come on its Indiana Jones, you know da, da, da dum . . Da, da, dum, dum, dum (An attempt at the theme song... that music makes me want to go out and be somebody!)

{Erica} said...

Poor little Noah! I'm sure it was a pretty scary situation...seizures are pretty scary things especially if you're not used to seeing someone you love have them. I am glad that you were able to get someone over there fast and that Noah seems to be doing better. You and Wade did an awesome job handling it!!I hope today he's on the road to feeling better.

Let me know if you need anything but from the sound of it you have plenty of good friends close by that can help you out. We'll pray that his ear infection clears up quickly and that you all have a better day :)

Nelson News said...

The only thing I can say is WOW. This happened to our neighbors little girl last summer and it freaked all of us out a bit. Good job on not freaking out, I would have! We will pray for your family, too!

Andrea said...

I am speechless debbi!! my heart goes out for you and wade, because as parents that is our biggest fear is that our kids will get hurt. little noah is such a sweet little boy, and i am so glad that he is doing ok. of course we will pray that everything continues to go well for you guys.

Family Scads said...

First...Debbi, you are amazing for holding it in as long as you did. I know how hard it is to watch your child suffer and be completely helpless. Big kudos to you! You are allowed to cry as much as you want because you are the mommy!
Second...Follow your mothers intuition. I bring up everything I notice with the doctors. I am sure that some are far fetched, but there have been times that the doctors have said "I did not think of that," and "you are probably right."
Third...I know how much our Heavenly Father loves our children and blesses them in times of need. I also know that these experiences are to strengthen and bring us closer as a family. It just stinks that it takes an experience like this to realize it!
We will be praying for your family! What a trooper Noah is!!
-Kim

StrykerLOVE said...

debbi - that is horrible - it makes me scared reading it so I think you were excellent - its always afterwards when you have to think about it over and over with all the possiblities that you can go crazy!! I don't know if you remember Marissa from the U but her first son had terrible seizures that she always attributed to his shots. But I think she did give the rest of the children shots - just waited for them to grow up a little more.

You are not strange - I too love Jacob a little more after the 3 book (who wants to sleep next to ice when you have fire right?!)

{Erica} said...

Just got back from lunch bunch and everyone asked about you and hoped little mister noah was doing okay...thought you should know you were missed :)

allison said...

oh my goodness! how scary, I cannot believe it, that makes me cry. I am glad he is doing better and didn't have to stay at the hospital, he is such a sweet little boy. Let me know if you need anything.

Stephen & Lauren Reber said...

I feel just like you do sometimes--where is the balance between doing too much and too little!! But, from your story, I think you handled this whole thing very well and we'll keep little Noah and your family in our prayers.

Kari said...

Debbi it totally made me tear up reading your story... you are so brave. I am soooo happy everything is ok and am sorry your family had to go through this! I don't think I could've handled it as well as you!

Courtney said...

Oh Debbie! I am so sorry. I am so happy that he is ok. I didn't find out until lunch bunch today. Please let me know if there is anything you need.

Heitmann Family said...

Oh goodnesss, I am glad everything is better today and that Noah is ok. What a trooper he is and you too for not losing it!! I'll be thinking of you!!

*Abby* said...

Just reading your recount of this event made me cry. I can't tell you have glad I am that everything is alright with Noah now and that he seemed to recover just fine. Phew.

The Halls said...

i know i am pregnent and hormonal but i have had my good cry for the day i am sooo sorry,but so thankful everything is ok. porr baby!

Amanda Wilson said...

This same exact thing happened to my sister and her 9 month old like 2 weeks ago. Sooooo scary. What a terrible thing to see your child in that condition and not be able to do anything!! Way to be strong and I am so glad he is doing better today.

Sarah said...

Oh Debbi! I am so, so glad that everything is okay now. I can't even imagine how hard it would be to watch your little one seizing and being totally helpless. I am so glad that you have such wonderful friends as neighbors that are so close and that Wade was able to get home right in time to help you and be with you through everything. I was crying as you were explaining how you were crying in the van on the way home after everything, I absolutely know you were watched over and helped through everything and that you will continue to be too! I am so glad Noah is alright now and we'll remember you guys in our prayers.

kh said...

Debbi! I am so sorry! I have never (yet) had to experience something like that with any of my kids, and reading your story was like going through it myself. My heart was beating and I could imagine what fear you might have had. You handled it amazingly though. I am so proud of you. I would have lost it for sure and then would also have to be taken along with my ailing child! You are so lucky Wade was on his way home, it's amazing how things like that play such a small but SUBSTANTIAL part of your life. Thank goodness for prayer and the power it has to heal and comfort. I know I have been a recipient of the blessings prayer brings. You are so fortunate. Thank heavens your little guy is okay! I love a happy ending!

Take Care!

Jenni said...

Hi Debbi-
I've been through that! My two oldest both had a series of seizures at 14 months old, and they both had low-grade fevers at the time. They both had all the workups, tests, assessments, probes, etc. and nothing was found.

They haven't had them since, but it's still unsettling to me. It's the scariest thing in the world to see your child doing that and feel powerless to help them!

I'm glad your little boy is ok and that you had quick responders and helpful friends!

Laken said...

OMG! That scared me so bad! I read sooooo fast trying to see the outcome. God is wonderful! I hope Noah, or your family, for that matter, never have to experience this again!!

Crystal said...

Wow!! What a night! Way to go for staying so calm. I have no idea what I would have done in that situation. God really is so good and will always be there for us, no matter what!! What would we do without Him. You and Wade are also so blessed to have people so near by who are such good friends and will drop everything to help. I am so glad that Noah is feeling better. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers!

Shelley said...

My youngest has had febrile seizures twice, scary scary....but better than the brain damage they prevented! Both my kids have history of very high fever. My dr has made me understand some fever basics, too, so I am not panicky anymore. I don't bat an eye at high ones anymore unless they are listless and lethargic! Good luck with your little one! Karsyn has only had two, so hopefully you won't ever encounter that again!!

Lindy said...

Wow...that is crazy. I felt emotional just reading about it. I'm so glad he's okay.

chandra said...

Look at all these people who love you and your family. That must feel pretty good. I got a call from Betty and she just told me that you guys almost lost Noah. She just told me to read your blog for more details. When i got off the phone I was crying and Daesha asked me who died. (had a few deaths around here lately) And she is just figuring it all out. ButI am so glad that Noah is alright. You are such a brave mommy. We will remember Noah in our prayers tonight. Love You!

Kim said...

I'm so glad you shared this post with us other mom's who have children. I wouldn't know what to do if one of my own were having a seizure. Now I do... I'm so glad Noah is alright. He will be in our prayers.

Mark and Aupreille said...

I am so glad that Noah is alright and that you were so brave and calm while the situation required it. I need to go wash my face now from all of the tears but I am so glad for the happy ending.

Celeste said...

Oh my goodness Debbie!! You had me in tears reading about this. I can't even imagine how scary and emotional this must have been for you and I admire you for holding it together until after it was over. I'll keep Noah and your family in my prayers.

Kim said...

I am so glad that Noah is ok. I have two sisters that have seizures. They are very scary and I am glad you were able to hold it together. What a blessing that Wade was just getting home. I wish I lived closer so that I could help out.

Anonymous said...

Debbi how scary! Quinn and I saw the fire truck and wondered where it was going. I am SOOOO glad that everything is okay. Poor Noah!

Dena said...

My goodness, sister. My heart absoultely aches for you right now. I'm so happy little Noah is ok. That's one of those "scariest" things that you hope never happens to you as a mom. You were such a brave soul - and praying got you thru it...it's the only thing that could've. With Braiden cutting teeth lately and running temperatures, I notice myself rocking and praying, rocking and praying. That's all I know to do. I'll be sending a few up for you...

Mom of these kids said...

Oh, how scary!!! I am so glad that he is o.k. Bless your heart, what a super scary thing to go through. It is awesome how everyone got to your side to help so quickly.

Anonymous said...

I cannot believe how calm you stayed... you go girl! I would have been freaking out! I am so glad he is better and hopefully he stays that way. I also hope it doesn't have to do with his immunizations, scary.

Laura said...

I'm so glad Noah is ok! You must have been so scared. It's great that you have such a good friend that was so close and able to help.

Sarie said...

Debbi, I feel for you. My sister had epilepsy... but to see your child even lethargic.. let alone having a seizure, is so scary. You are great to stay calm and I know it was Heavenly Father's influence. All of us support you and are so glad to hear that everything's ok. We love you guys.

Rosjuane said...

Hey Debbie,
Sorry I havent had a chance to comment lately, but I did read about Noah and he was really on my mind. I'm glad he is doing better. I was praying for you guys. Thanks for the prayers you were sending to us too. It sure is nice to know that people are there for you.